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Commitment 10:

Opposite of My Story

Exploring the opposite means being open to the notion that opposite of your story (thoughts, beliefs, opinions) could be as true or truer than your story. 

It is not the issue itself that causes pain, but your interpretation of it. 

Conscious leaders take responsibility for being the labeler of their experiences and their life, and they learn to question all their labels.

From Above the Line

By Me:

I commit to seeing that the opposite of my story is as true or truer than my original story. I recognize that I interpret the world around me and give my stories meaning. 

From below the Line

To Me:

I commit to believing my stories and the meaning I give them as the truth. 

Practice It:

Use “The Work” by Byron Katie to practice looking at the opposite of your stories.

Pick an issue like: “Paul should understand me.”

1. Is it true?

Is it true that he should understand you? Be still. Wait for the heart’s response.

2. Can you absolutely know that it’s true?

Ultimately, can you really know what he should or shouldn’t understand? Can you absolutely know what is in his best interest to understand?

3. How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought?

What happens when you believe “Paul should understand me” and he doesn’t? Do you experience anger, stress, frustration? How do you treat Paul? Do you give him “the look”? Do you try to change him in any way? How do these reactions feel? How do you treat yourself? Does that thought bring stress or peace into your life? Be still as you listen.

4. Who would you be without the thought?

Close your eyes. Picture yourself in the presence of Paul. Now imagine looking at Paul, just for a moment, without the thought “I want him to understand.” What do you see? What would your life look like without that thought?

The Turnaround

Next, turn your statement around. The turnarounds are an opportunity to experience the opposite of what you believe to be true. You may find several turnarounds.

For example, “Paul should understand me” turns around to:

  • I should understand me.
  • I should understand Paul.
  • Paul shouldn't understand me.

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01.

Responsibility

Commit to taking full responsibility for the circumstances of my life, and my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual wellbeing. I commit to support others to take full responsibility for their lives. 

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02.

Curiosity

Commit to growing in self-awareness. I commit to regarding every interaction as an opportunity to learn. I commit to curiosity as a path to rapid learning.

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03.

Feelings

Commit to feeling my feelings all the way through to completion. They come, and I locate them in my body then move, breathe and vocalize them so they release all the way through.

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04.

Candor

I commit to saying what is true for me. I commit to being a person to whom others can express themselves with candor.

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05.

Gossip

Commit to ending gossip, talking directly to people with whom I have an issue or concern, and encouraging others to talk directly to people with whom they have an issue or concern.

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06.

Integrity

Commit to the masterful practice of integrity, including acknowledging all authentic feelings, expressing the unarguable truth and keeping my agreements.

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07.

Appreciation

Commit to living in appreciation, fully opening to both receiving and giving appreciation.

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08.

Genius

Commit to expressing my full magnificence, and to supporting and inspiring others to fully express their creativity and live in their zone of genius.

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09.

Play & Rest

Commit to creating a life of play, improvisation, and laughter. I commit to seeing all of life unfold easefully and effortlessly. I commit to maximizing my energy by honoring rest, renewal and rhythm.

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10.

Opposite of My Story

Commit to seeing that the opposite of my story is as true or truer than my original story. I recognize that I interpret the world around me and give my stories meaning.

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11.

Approval

Commit to being the source of my security, control and approval.

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12.

Enough

Commit to experiencing that I have enough of everything… including time, money, love, energy, space, resources, etc.

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13.

Allies

Commit to seeing all people and circumstances as allies that are perfectly suited to help me learn the most important things for my growth.

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14.

Win for All

Commit to creating win for all solutions (win for me, win for the other person, win for the organization, and win for the whole) for whatever issues, problems, concerns, or opportunities life gives me.

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15.

Being the Resolution

Commit to being the resolution or solution that is needed: seeing what is missing in the world as an invitation to become that which is required.

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The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership

01.

Responsibility

I commit to taking full responsibility for the circumstances of my life, and my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual wellbeing. I commit to support others to take full responsibility for their lives. 

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02.

Curiosity

I commit to growing in self-awareness. I commit to regarding every interaction as an opportunity to learn. I commit to curiosity as a path to rapid learning.

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03.

Feelings

I commit to feeling my feelings all the way through to completion. They come, and I locate them in my body then move, breathe and vocalize them so they release all the way through.

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04.

Candor

I commit to saying what is true for me. I commit to being a person to whom others can express themselves with candor.

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05.

Gossip

I commit to ending gossip, talking directly to people with whom I have an issue or concern, and encouraging others to talk directly to people with whom they have an issue or concern.

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06.

Integrity

I commit to the masterful practice of integrity, including acknowledging all authentic feelings, expressing the unarguable truth and keeping my agreements.

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07.

Appreciation

I commit to living in appreciation, fully opening to both receiving and giving appreciation.

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08.

Genius

I commit to expressing my full magnificence, and to supporting and inspiring others to fully express their creativity and live in their zone of genius.

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09.

Play & Rest

I commit to creating a life of play, improvisation, and laughter. I commit to seeing all of life unfold easefully and effortlessly. I commit to maximizing my energy by honoring rest, renewal and rhythm.

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10.

Opposite of My Story

I commit to seeing that the opposite of my story is as true or truer than my original story. I recognize that I interpret the world around me and give my stories meaning.

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11.

Approval

I commit to being the source of my security, control and approval.

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12.

Enough

I commit to experiencing that I have enough of everything… including time, money, love, energy, space, resources, etc.

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13.

Allies

I commit to seeing all people and circumstances as allies that are perfectly suited to help me learn the most important things for my growth.

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14.

Win for All

I commit to creating win for all solutions (win for me, win for the other person, win for the organization, and win for the whole) for whatever issues, problems, concerns, or opportunities life gives me.

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15.

Being the Resolution

I commit to being the resolution or solution that is needed: seeing what is missing in the world as an invitation to become that which is required.

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“Yes, you’ll find powerful distinctions and tools. But the real secret sauce of Conscious Leadership is the embodiment.

You can see the depth of work they’ve done in how they hold space. The models are great but what stands out is the combination of love and challenge, presence and agency. The work cuts straight to the core very quickly. It’s incredibly deep and also very practical.

I used to say conscious leadership is relevant for our times. I think now it’s a necessity. People need it.”

Matt Dawson

CEO, TruDiagnostic

“CLG has been transformative for me. The coaches don’t collude with my stories. They help me find a truer level underneath that. They’ve done their own work – they’re living it – and I trust their guidance because I see them practicing it. The biggest benefit is I’m more aware of the difference between facts and my stories. I’m better at recognizing when I’m triggered and getting curious about it.

As a team, there is less drama, less recycling of issues. Disagreements come up – and they get dealt with. We get to decisions more quickly because people actually say what they’re thinking and feeling. It’s lighter. It’s more fun. It’s better to work in our company when we’re applying these principles.”

Brad Keywell

Founder & CEO, Gigawatt.ai

“One key aspect of my experience with CLG has been being shoulder-to-shoulder with somebody who sees me and reflects what they see, without fear. That reflection has allowed me to understand how I’m showing up – what patterns are at work, what’s actually happening inside of me, not just outside. It’s a very collaborative lens that has allowed me to understand myself better and ultimately decide how I want to be, what I choose to think, what I choose to let go of.

All that adds up to this beautiful mirror of self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-forgiveness. That’s extraordinary. That’s rare. You don’t find this on a therapist’s couch. You don’t find this on a weekend retreat. I have found this powerfully through CLG.”

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