When a leader leads from trust/above the line, victims become creators (take radical responsibility), villains become challengers (provide loving pressure), and heros become coaches (support empowerment).
"To Me", "By Me", "Through Me" and “As Me” are different states of being that determine in any given moment how we relate with ourselves and the world.
The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership is a relationship roadmap that covers the full spectrum of ways that we can live and relate from either fear/below the line or trust/above the line. They were created by Diana Chapman, Jim Dethmer, and Kaley Klemp based on the work of The Hendricks Institute.
Created by Stephen Karpman, the drama triangle a psychological model that describes the three faces of victimhood. We define the three points on the triangle as victim (at the effect of), villain (blames), and hero (seeks temporary relief).